Sugar Mom Dating FAQ
Short, honest answers to what people ask before they join Sugar. Something missing? Write to [email protected].
About Sugar
What is Sugar?
Sugar is a verified dating site where successful, mature women (sugar mommies) and the younger men who want to date them meet. Every profile is ID and age verified before it becomes visible.
Who is Sugar for?
Two sides: women with their own success who want to date a younger man, and men who want to date a confident, established older woman. You choose your side when you sign up.
Is this an escort or pay-for-company site?
No. Sugar is a dating site between adults. Our rules forbid sexual services for money, escorting and any exchange of payment for company, and profiles or messages that mention it are removed.
Is Sugar only in the US?
Sugar starts in the US and works anywhere in English. Travel mode on Premium and Elite lets you search in another city before you arrive.
Verification and safety
Are the profiles real?
Every member passes an ID and selfie check before their profile is visible, and there are no free accounts, so nobody can create fake profiles in bulk.
What age can join?
Adults 18 and older. You enter your date of birth at signup and the ID check confirms it.
What happens to my ID?
It is used only to verify your age and identity and is never shown to other members. Details are in the privacy policy.
What if someone asks me for money?
Do not send anything. Asking for money, gifts, gift cards or fees breaks our rules. Report the conversation and our safety team acts on it. Read more on safety.
Privacy
Will people I know see me?
Nobody sees your private photos unless you open your album to them, one member at a time. On Elite you can also switch on private mode, so your profile appears only to men you liked or wrote to, and browse in incognito mode without showing up in anyone's viewers list. Your card statement shows a discreet descriptor instead of a dating site name.
Do I have to share my phone number?
No. Conversations stay inside the app. You decide if and when to share anything else.
What is private mode?
On Elite, your profile is visible only to members you have liked or written to. Everyone else cannot find you in search.
Membership and billing
Why is Sugar not free like other apps?
Free dating sites fill up with fake profiles, bots and people who ask for gift cards or a registration fee before they will talk. Because every member on Sugar pays and passes an ID and selfie check, those accounts have no reason to exist here. Your membership pays for verification and moderation, and there are no credits or pay per message charges on top.
How much does it cost?
Essential is 49 USD per month, Premium 99 USD and Elite 199 USD. Paying yearly saves 50 percent: 24, 49 and 99 USD per month. See pricing.
Do I pay per message?
No. There are no credits. Your plan covers everything it lists.
Can I cancel?
Any time. Your access runs to the end of the period you paid for, and payments are final as described in the terms.
What shows on my card statement?
A discreet billing descriptor that does not describe the service.
Your account
I did not get my code. What now?
Check your spam or promotions folder for an email from Sugar. You can request a new code after 60 seconds.
When does my profile become visible?
After your email is confirmed and your ID and selfie check is passed. We email you when your verification step is ready.
How do I delete my account?
In your account settings, or by writing to [email protected] from the email address of your account.
