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Community Guidelines

Sugar works because every member is real, an adult and here to date. These guidelines say what that means in practice. Breaking them leads to removal.

1Be real

  • Use your own recent photos and only photos of yourself.
  • Keep one account, in your own name, verified with your own ID.
  • Be honest about your age, your city and what you are looking for.

2Be respectful

  • Take no for an answer, the first time.
  • No harassment, insults, threats or hate speech.
  • No pressure to meet, to move off the app or to share personal details.
  • Do not share another member's photos, messages or personal information.

3No money for company

Sugar is a dating site between adults, not a marketplace. Relationships here are not paid for.

  • No offers or requests of sexual services for money, and no escorting.
  • No exchange of payment, gifts or favors for company or dates.
  • No asking for money, gift cards, crypto, loans, bills to be paid or "fees", and no investment pitches.
  • No acting on behalf of someone else or any sign of trafficking.

Profiles and messages that mention payment for company are held automatically and reviewed.

4Keep it classy

  • No nudity or explicit content in photos, profiles or public areas.
  • No sexual messages to someone who has not welcomed them.
  • No advertising, links to other services or recruiting.

5Adults only

Every member is 18 or older and verified. Any content involving minors, or any attempt to contact a minor, leads to immediate removal and a report to the authorities.

6How we enforce the rules

  • Report and Block are on every profile and conversation.
  • Our safety team reviews every report.
  • Depending on what happened, we warn, restrict, hold or remove the account.
  • Serious violations, such as trafficking, minors or threats, are removed at once and reported where the law requires it.
  • Removed members cannot rejoin, and removal for a violation is not refunded.

Questions or appeals: [email protected]. Read more on safety and in the terms.